Thursday, August 20, 2009

Benjamin Bradley Bozin: Our Little Miracle

As most of you know, I gave birth to our beautiful son last Tuesday, August 11th. I apologize for the delayed entry; I've been in "healing mode" and am just starting to feel human again.

So, as you know, I was trying everything to induce labor. Last Monday evening, Brad made spicy tacos for dinner. Around 3am, I felt like I had cramps but of course I didn't correlate it to labor because I was convinced that I was going to have to be induced. I tried to go back to bed, but eventually got up to read around 5:30am. Brad woke up and I told him that I was having "cramps"; he got excited and asked if we needed to go to the hospital. (By the way, we had a 8:30am appt. scheduled for that morning so that the doctors could do a stress test on Benjamin).

I told Brad that we could wait until out appt. Well, the "cramps" started getting closer and closer. We started timing them at 7am and they were about 10 minutes apart. I knew that if we went to the hospital and they determined that I was indeed in labor, I wouldn't be allowed to eat. So, for my "last meal" (meaning "last bad-for-me meal"), we went through McDonalds drive-thru. That morning, the intercom was broken and someone was taking orders outside. Just as we were giving our order, I had another contraction. After I screamed my order of an "Egg and Cheese Biscuit!", Brad looked at the frightened McDonalds employee and said, "Don't worry - she's in labor; we're on our way to the hospital right after this."
It was a classic moment.


I was able to walk into the hospital and into labor and delivery. They had me change into a gown so they could check to see if I was in labor and if so, how dilated I was. Much to my surprise, I was 5cm dilated. So, they admitted me and we were set up in a room around 8:15am.

About an hour later, I received my epidural. It was the best. thing. ever. I couldn't feel any contractions - or my legs for that matter - after getting my epidural.

The doctor came in to break my water around 11:30am and said that I should have a baby in a few hours.

Well, around noon, the doctor came in again and informed me that I was 10CM dilated and needed to get ready to start pushing.

It all happened so fast. With Brad on one side of me and my mom on the other, I started to push. After several minutes, there was a flood of people that came into the room. Someone named "Dr. Wittich" was being paged STAT to my room. Benjamin's head was turned sideways and he wasn't coming through the birth canal. One doctor tried to vacuum his head out three times - all unsuccessful.

Dr. Wittich, a 70 year old OB who happened to be working that day, came into my room, sat in front of me and said, " I only want you to listen to me. When I say push, you push".

At this time, they had given me oxygen. I couldn't feel anything but sensed something was wrong. All I could do was cry and pray.

Benjamin's heartbeat was down to 50 bpm (the average baby's heartbeat is 150 bpm). Dr. Wittich took forceps and turned Benjamin's head the correct way. He said PUSH and I pushed as hard as I could. A few seconds later, we could hear a faint cry. The umbilical cord was around Benjamin's neck.

The doctors and nurses removed the cord and rushed him over to a side table. After a few seconds, I heard a healthy cry.

Dr. Wittich and another doctor remained in front of me for about 15 minutes. Due to Benjamin's size (9 pounds, 15 ounces), I had third degree lacerations and needed to be sewn.

After being tended to, they handed me our beautiful and BIG baby boy. I was in awe of his size. His breathing was a little labored, so they took him to the nursery so they could monitor him for awhile.

While Benjamin was in the nursery, the nurses attempted to move me to my mother/baby room. I fainted two times and was unable to sit up the other two. After the fourth time (which was around 9pm), the doctor ordered a blood test.

After the results came back, the doctor told me that I had lost a lot of blood and needed a transfusion.

They were able to move me into the mother/baby room around 11pm, after being hooked up to several IVs. Brad and I spent the night in the room with Benjamin (who was brought in to us with a clean bill of health shortly after I was transferred into the new room). Although I was weak, it was an amazing experience. We didn't get any sleep that night (or the night after), but it was an incredible bonding time between myself, my husband and our son.

The following day, I received my blood transfusion. After the blood transfusion, they took a sonogram of my uterus and determined that there was placenta and tissue that needed to be removed. I went into surgery about 10 minutes after my transfusion was complete.

The surgery and transfusion were successful.

Three days (which seemed like three years) after being admitted into the hospital, we were on our way home.


Although I'm sore, I'm on the road to recovery. I heal more everyday. I'm so amazed by God's grace and His mercy. Dr. Wittich is the ONLY doctor within a 100 mile radius that still uses forceps. I'm told that they don't even teach that method of delivery in medical schools today.

God's hand was all over the birth of Benjamin. God has changed my life in so many ways and now, He has given us a beautiful son. I will forever be grateful.



Saturday, August 8, 2009

2 Days Past Due Date feels like 2 Months!

Well, as you probably guessed, no Benjamin yet. We had a doctor's appt. on Thursday (his due date) and the doc. said my measurements were exactly the same as the previous visit. Really?! After EVERYTHING I've done - from spicy foods to brisk walking - it's hard to believe that all remains the same. I'm now convinced that he's only going to come out if I'm induced. :)
We have our next appt. scheduled for Friday, at which time they are going to do a stress test on Benjamin to make sure that he's still content and happy; they'll also check the amniotic fluid to ensure that it's still at a good level.
If all looks good, then they will schedule the induction for Tuesday, August 18th - which will make me 41 weeks and 5 days pregnant.
At least I know that I can't stay pregnant forever and we'll get to meet our little man in 10 days, at the latest.
We appreciate everyone's prayers.

Thursday, July 30, 2009

39 Weeks... yep, still pregnant :)

We're officially one week away from Benjamin's due date. We had a doctor's appointment on Tuesday. Our little guy's heartbeat is going strong at 140 bpm and he's still in the optimal position for delivery (head allll the way down there).
We also found out that I'm 95% effaced! but only 1 cm dilated... she again told me that he could come any day. She suggested that I bounce on an exercise ball (which Brad promptly ran out and purchased right after the appointment) - check!
She also suggested that I start taking Evening Primrose Oil - check!

So, I feel like I've done everything I can... now I'm leaving it up to God. I've prayed that he will make me less anxious and start focusing on relaxing during these "final" days. I know that God has a plan and need to be confident in that fact. The waiting is just so hard! :)

Below is a link to the rest of our 9 Month Pregnancy photo shoot. Our photographer, Seth, did an amazing job putting the pictures in a slide show format. Enjoy!

http://www.shrubin.com/portrait/090712_Aleisha+Brad/index.html

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

"He Could Come at Any Time..."

Those were the doctor's words this morning at our appt. We had a great appt. The reason why I say great is because we actually got to see our little guy on a sonogram again (it's been 4 months since we've seen him last). As soon as the doctor saw him on the screen, she said "He's pudgy!". She guesstimates that Benjamin weighs between 7.5 and 8 pounds now. She said if his head were any lower in my pelvis, I'd be giving birth! So that's why I can barely walk now. :)
I am now officially working from home, as the doctor suggested that I should stay close to the hospital in case I go into labor, even though Benjamin isn't due for another 16 days.
We're so excited and so ready!

Sunday, July 19, 2009

3 Years of Wedded Bliss

I almost forgot to mention... Brad and I celebrated our three-year wedding anniversary on Wednesday. We ate a yummy, 3 hour meal at The Melting Pot; it was dee-lish but I wasn't able to eat as much as I normally can since Benjamin is now taking up some stomach space. Not complaining about that though!
Brad bought me a Canon Rebel (new camera), which I've been wanting for awhile. I'm looking forward to trying it out on our little guy. :)

I look forward to spending 75 more anniversaries with Brad. He's my best friend and I can't imagine going through life without him. I love you, Brad!

37.5 Weeks... but who's counting?

Well, we made it past 37 weeeks, which was a huge benchmark. 37 weeks marks the "full-term" point. Baby Benjamin is fully baked! He can come at any time now and I think we're ready... I think. :)
I packed my bag and Benjamin's hospital bag this weekend; the nursery is D-O-N-E (pictures to come). Brad is taking Benjamin's car seat to the fire department this week, to be properly installed. We have a doctor's appt. on Tuesday... more to come at that time!

Below are pictures we had taken last weekend in DC. Our photographer was great; I lasted a lot longer than anticipated (2 hours) and am so glad we got the opportunity to have a 9-Month Pregnancy photo shoot. :)



Thursday, July 9, 2009

9 Months Pregnant!

Well, I made it! I'm officially in my last month of pregnancy. Unfortunately, I'm SO large that everything is uncomfortable - walking, sitting, and even breathing! I know it will all be worth it when we meet our little guy in less than a month.

We had our 36 week appt on Tuesday. Benjamin's heartbeat was around 145 bpm and everything is looking great. We filled out our pre-admittance forms for the hospital, so we won't have to worry about it when I go into labor. I also filled out all the information for Benjamin's birth certificate. So exciting!


My weekly e-newsletter tells me that Benjamin is now measuring around 18½ inches long and nearly 6 pounds—just about as big as a breadbox. :)